I feel like I upset people an awful lot. I really hate it. I like to make people happy - I like to do whatever I can to make their lives better. It sucks when I'm the thing making it worse. It's almost always accidental. I'm just ditzy and I don't realize that what I'm saying or doing will be hurtful or offensive.
I don't mean to hurt people. I don't mean to hurt you.
Please don't think that just because I'm mean sometimes I will stop being your friend. I don't leave people that need me. (Note: It feels kind of vain to say you "need" me...but...I guess you know what I mean).